Ms. Femoiselle

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Appearance is everything! Femoiselles, personal grooming is essential when leveling up. Keeping your nails and toes done is a must because it is apart of your maintenance and upkeep. Visits to the nail salon every two weeks can become very costly. Don't worry Femoiselles, there are other alternatives to maintain your nails and toes at a budget friendly price. You can do them yourself!

Press-on Nails

Yes, part of making your nails look nice on your own is by sporting press-on nails. Wearing press-on nails is cost effective, saves time and gives off a more professional finish. Right now, the trend of wearing press-on nails is rising. Due to the Coronavirus, you might not feel comfortable going to the salon an

Nail Polish

Femoiselles, you can actually paint your nails and toes yourself. Practice painting your own nails and toenails, because it saves a lot of money. For my advanced Femoiselles, you can learn how to file/shape your nails and toes to give them a shape. Gel/Shellac nails are my favorite. I was an avid customer of the nail salon, but when I found out this trick, I never went back. The trick I learned to keep your nail polish to last longer like the salon's version of gel nails, is start with a base coat, then a regular nail polish and a top gel coat.It gives me the shine I love and long lasting wear. My number one top coat is, OPI Infinite Shine 3. Try this, you might just love it too!

Classy Nail Colors & Styles

Now that you have decided on whether press-on nails or nail polish, picking the shape and style is important in the level up. You can pick an array of colors and nail shapes. When leveling up, it's important that you wear classy styles and nail colors. When trying to attract a man of a certain caliber, the way in which you wear your nails is a crucial factor. My suggestion is to stick with classic feminine colors, like reds, nudes, clears, pinks, whites etc. The less is more is the look you want to achieve. This means no elaborate designs, extreme lengths/shapes nor nail jewelry. Some of my favorite nail brands for cheap are Essie, OPI and Sally Hansen Hard as Nails Xtreme Wear. A majority of nail polishes can be purchased at your local drugstore, Walmart, Target, Amazon, Ulta and online.

Ms. Femoiselle Exclusive Tip

Freestyling

Femoiselles, your best bet to meet financial secured men, is by meeting them in public. As of right now we are experiencing a pandemic, so venture out at your own risk. If you aren't comfortable going out, just wait until you feel comfortable to go. Save these tips for the future when you get ready to venture out! The process of deliberately going out to meet a generous man/men in the real world is freestyling.

Who is Freestyling For?
Freestyling is the best option if you are really serious about meeting a wealthy or generous boyfriend and or future husband.

Why Should You Freestyle!
It's a lot safer because you are in a public setting.
You can use body language to attract.
Get a feel for who you are talking with.
Potential for something more long term.
Make several connections.
Get free perks like your drink tab paid for or your meal paid for.

Best Time to Freestyle
The best time to go freestyling is through the week, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, during lunch time and happy hour, in more affluent wealthy areas.

Femoiselles, stay tuned for the next exclusive tip, how to freestyle! Check your spam or junk mail emails alerting you of the next exclusive tip, it might might be there.

-Ms. Femoiselle

Ms. Femoiselle Exclusive Tip

Now that you know what freestyling is and all about, let me explain to you how to freestyle. When you freestyle, you must look your best, make sure you have on a classy dress, some form of heels on, smell good, hair and makeup in place. You must look the part in order to attract the type of wealthy generous man you are looking for. Also, it is best for you to go alone. It is time to do your research on what places areas are wealthy and the upscale bars and restaurants within the wealthy or affluent areas. You can use Google or Yelp to help. Also ask around to find out good places to go. Make sure you have at least 2-3 places in mind just in case one of the places doesn't have any potentials. If you have options, you can make sure to try another establishment on the same day. Once you have that all figured out, it's time to freestyle!

How To Freestyle!

You have arrived to your location. Make sure to scan the room, especially the bar area. Try your best to sit in the middle of the bar if you can, if not as close to it as you can get. The reason is because most people always go to the center to get service. You want to be where the traffic is to get noticed.

The first thing you want to do is make eye contact, smile and let the men come to you.It will feel more natural for the men to approach and talk to you. Make sure you pay attention for men in well-tailored clothing. It doesn't matter if he has good style or not. What's key is the quality of his clothes. Are they dry cleaned, iron nicely, tailored? Does he buy good quality clothes and can he afford them? Don't let just because he has on a suit fool you, or has an expensive watch on to lead you to believe he has money.

Most rich men pay in cash, so pay attention to that as well. If he doesn't pay in cash, check to see if he is paying with a black card. * Due to Coronavirus, most will pay with a card! Check to see what type if you can!

Look for the men that are good tippers. If he tip wells, that means he is thoughtful and understanding of hard work.

You can also make your way next to a man by the bar that you think might have potential. Make sure to ask if the seat is free first. Smile and be kind. If he is drinking something, ask his recommendations on whats a good to drink or to eat? This helps you strike up a conversation with each other.

Ask the man a lot of questions, get his opinion, recoomendations and so forth.

Do not make your way to every wealthy man in the room. It brings attention to yourself and people see right through it!

Don't be thirsty or act thirsty! If he isn't interested in you it is ok. Sometimes it doesn't work out.

Let the man initiate the exchanging of phone number! He needs to ask for your number instead of only giving you his business card. If he gives you his business card, he thinks he is the prize and wants you to chase him. If he asks for your number, that is a positive thing.

If things are going in the right direction, you won't have to pay for your food or drinks. The man will have taken care of it for you if he is really interested. If not it is perfectly fine, just try again. The goal is to meet wealthy men that are generous and you see as a potential suitor for you. If you don't find that on that particular day, doesn't mean you won't another day. You will have had good conversation and left with learning something new as well. Freestyling is all about trial and error. Eventually it will come natural to you and you might just meet your future provider and protector husband. Don't be scared, freestyling just might change your life.

For the Femoiselles looking to meet men during the pandemic, head to the grocery stores in the affluent areas and shop for grocery and for men! Make sure you are dressed cute even with your mask on, if it is required! Now is the time to strike up conversations with them by asking for help to reach items, where something is located and for recommendations in the grocery store. You never know what that conversation might lead to for you! Happy grocery shopping and stay safe!

Stay tuned for my next exclusive level up tip! ❤ - Ms. Femoiselle

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The Best Place to Meet Men/Freestyle During the Pandemic

Femoiselles, Covid-19 has put a halt on everything! This is for the you ladies that won't let this pandemic stop you from meeting potential suitors that are financially attractive! Typically, men would be everywhere! We don't want to attract quantity, we want to attract quality! Right now your best chance to meet a man of quality is, wait for it, the GROCERY STORES in wealthy and affluent neighborhoods! Put on your best face and wear your classy attire. It's time to go grocery shopping or to grab a few items! Turn up the femininity volume! This isn't the time to be shy! Act like you are lost to get help from potentials! Ask men for help with getting things off the shelf! Bump into men and drop your personal items to get their help! Lastly, ask them for their opinion on grocery items! These are the easiest ways to strike up a conversation, which will possibly end with an exchange of phone numbers and a future date! If you are confident enough, you might just leave with your grocery items paid for! I can't leave without sharing a couple of grocery stores that you might score big in wealthy neighborhoods!

Stay tuned for my next exclusive level up tip! ❤ - Ms. Femoiselle

Makeup

Wearing makeup is a necessary part of leveling up. The most feminine of women always paint their faces with makeup! It enhances your beauty. Makeup helps accentuate and highlight your features. Wearing makeup gives you a polished and flawless look. When wearing makeup, it helps attract others to you. Your whole appearance goes up a notch. I suggest that if you aren't familiar with wearing it, since we are in a pandemic, now is a perfect time to watch youtube tutorials with clean makeup looks. Once we will be able to shop again like we used to, you can seek from makeup artists in department stores, or from Sephora.

Red Lipstick

You want to bring the boys to your yard, wearing lipstick does the trick. You have to wear a shade of red. It's something about wearing red lipstick that men can't resist. It is also fantastic for making your teeth look whiter when wearing it. You have to pick the right shade of red for your skintone. Not picking the right shade will have you looking like a clown. I recommend MAC Ruby Woo lipstick. It is one of my faves.When you apply this color to your lips, you become simply irresistible. Another great pick is Nyx Matte Lipstick.Very cheap with a long lasting staying power and doesn't smudge.This items can be purchased in your local department stores, drug stores, MAC, Nyx Cosmetics, Ulta and Sephora. I suggest you start adding lipstick, especially red lipstick into your daily routine. Thank me later!

Mascara

Mascara is your best friend! To give your eyes a lift and sparkle, mascara can do the job. When you wear mascara, it gives your eyelashes that extra volume you need. Batting your eyes with the extra lift helps dramatically when flirting. My favorite mascara of all time is the waterproof, Too Faced Better Than Sex mascara. I live by this mascara. A trick I do to make my eyelashes really stand out is using lash primer before putting on my mascara. The one that I use is Chanel La Base Mascara which helps keep lashes healthy and gives more volume. A more budget friendly lash primer is by Nyx Professional Makeup Big & Loud Lash Primer, it does a wonderful job as well. Sometimes your lashes look like you are wearing fake lashes. You can achieve the long lash look by just doing so without having to purchase different sets of lashes all the time. Another great brand of mascara for less is Maybelline Lash Sensational, it gets the job done too! All products mentioned can be purchased at your local drug store, Target, Walmart and Ulta Beauty, Sephora and Amazon.

Foundation and Powder

You want your skin to look flawless, wearing foundation and a powder is key. They provide a wonderful and smoother palette to work with. Picking out the right color is a big deal. Also, your skin changes color during the various seasons, so I recommend that you buy at least two different foundations and powders. A great brand of foundation is the Fenty Pro Filt'r Soft Matte Longwear Foundation, it has completely changed the game for women of color. Just about every shade is available so no one is left out. A great budget friendly brand is Morphe Fluidity Full Coverage foundation. Great for ladies that want that full coverage. You can't wear foundation without a powder to give you that perfect flawless look. I am a big fan of Nars powders. Nars Soft Velvet Loose Powder, controls shine and gives a smooth textured look. A great priced powder is Ben Nye. It is lightweight and can be used on all skin tones. Wearing a setting powder controls shine and makes your skin look soft and flawless. You can purchase these items at your local department store, Fenty Beauty, Camera Ready Cosmetics, Nars, Sephora, Ulta, Morphe and Amazon!

Femoiselles, the way you dress speaks volumes. To attract the type of man that is financially stable and or wealthy, you have to look the part! You can do this by wearing your best feminine clothing. Read that again, look the part but that doesn’t mean spend and buy only expensive pieces. You want to present to the world that you are very feminine, classy, elegant and polished. Just because a style is trendy, doesn’t means it is classy and fits the agenda to attract high value men. I recommend to save money, you can buy these 5 style of dresses from the sale racks in store or online, consignment stores, and thrift stores. Here is a list of 5 feminine styles of dresses you must add to your wardrobe!

1. Wrap Dresses

Wrap Dresses are the most flattering dresses any woman can wear of any body type. A wrap dress via Wiki is a dress with a front closure formed by wrapping one side across the other and knotting the attached sides that wrap forming a v line at the chest area. This type of dress accentuates your bust and waistline. Not only does it provide these great things, it hides bulges and gives an illusion of curves if you are lacking in that department. Wrap dresses are sexy without showing or revealing too much!

2. Sheath Dresses

If your body type is heart shaped or an hourglass, this is the dress for you. Based on Wikipedia’s definition, a sheath dress is a fitted straight cut dress that is normally worn sleeveless and knee length. This dress emphasizes the waist, as the skirt portion is fitted. Sheath dresses give you a form fitted silhouette and call attention to your proportions.

3. Shift Dresses

A shift dress is similar to a sheath dress but the difference is it hangs loosely from the shoulders and falls straight down and doesn’t cinch in the waist. This dress has more room in the hip area. It can be worn casually. Shift dresses are timeless and very classic. It’s another dress great for all body types.

4. Sundresses

This dress can be worn in warmer weather. It is typically an informal or casual style dress. It’s made with lightweight fabric and loose fitting. It is a bodice style sleeveless dress with thin shoulder straps, wide neckline and sometimes backless. For some reason men love when women where sundresses because they are sexy and show off the feminine form.

5. Dresses in Feminine Colors

Peach, coral, pinks, red, pastel, purple, creams and beige are feminine colors you should wear and incorporate in the color of your dresses. Wearing dresses in feminine colors provides a softness to your appearance. When you wear feminine colors they give off romance, sweet, flirty, serene, soft, innocent, sexy and spicy. Wearing solid feminine colored dresses is very classy and elegant. Wearing a red dress, is found to be very appealing and attractive to the opposite sex. Make sure when you wear feminine dresses, wear colors that compliment your skin tone.

Online Consignment Stores

Consignment stores and thrift stores have some amazing finds! The key to find great items, is to venture to the consignment store in the surrounding areas in and around affluent areas. They have various styles, colors, prints and sometimes labels for less. I’m all about dressing well to attract better into your life! When you look good, men and women treat you significantly better. Classic vintage pieces, gently worn items and sometimes brand new clothing can be scored. If you are visiting the store, make sure you get ready to look through everything because you never know what treasure you might find! However if you aren’t capable of doing so, you can always shop online line from these top 4 consignment stores. Here is a list of online consignment stores to help add to your level up dress wardrobe.

1. ThredUp
2. Poshmark
3. The RealReal
4.Vestiaire Collective

When shopping whether online sales, in store sales, or online thrift and consignment stores, add these 5 types of dresses to your collection!